10 Mind Blowing difference between Winner’s and Loser’s Mind
Successful people differ from losers only by their thinking. They think differently. They react differently to
what is happening, they treat situations differently. Here are the main features of a successful person from a
A loser will always find those guilty for their failures. Everybody is guilty – parents, because the state did
not give him something in childhood, the state because the government is wrong because it is not interested
in his life. The crisis, because he, as always, violated all plans. The partner (husband or wife), because it is
their fault that I do not develop, they do not give me … And so on. He will never tell himself that in
everything that happens in my life, only I myself am to blame, my whole life depends on me! Successful
people never blame anyone. In their thinking, the parents gave everything they could, the partner will always
support the government … but why should I care about the government! A successful person is firmly
convinced that everything in life depends only on himself. Only he himself can affect his life.
Losers never take the risk.
The loser reasons like this: “Yes, I live poorly, I earn little, in the family is a mess … But, first, it is not me
who is to blame, but, secondly, I cannot change anything. Risk is for stupid. Better plucked tit in hands, than
the most beautiful crane in the sky!”. And no matter how many opportunities he gives life, he will miss them
all, considering that it is too risky to give up everything and turn life 180 degrees. This is not for him. A
successful person, on the contrary, does not miss a single opportunity. This does not mean that he rushes “
into the pool with his head .” But he does not miss the opportunities that give him life!
Successful people always bring everything to a logical end.
Losers, on the contrary, they light up brightly and fervently but quickly go out. They begin to torment fears
and doubts. How many times have I watched people register for my free webinars and then decide not to go?
And how many of these opportunities are missed by losers in their lives. A successful person, even if for
some reason he could not attend the webinar, he always asks me: “Is it possible to get a record?” Remember,
I’m talking about free events. And so in everything. Losers ignite, but their motivation is enough for a day or
two, and then they begin to torment fears and laziness. They are afraid that in their life something may
actually change, and laziness says: “Why do you need it? Wasted time! Let’s better relax!”
A successful person can admit their mistakes.
He admits that he was wrong, draws conclusions and goes further. The loser, on the other hand, never admits
to himself that he was “nosy child.” He will tell everyone and himself that it just happened that the
circumstances were like that. That it is not his mistake, he just always has no luck! Here he is not so lucky.
He perceives any failure as a stroke of fate, and, instead of considering how to avoid it in the future, the loser
simply stops doing anything at all. Why does something? You see, I tried, and what came of it?
A successful person always develops.
In general, people are so arranged, they can not stand still. People either grow in their development, move
upwards. Or they roll down. Otherwise, it does not happen, this is how the world works. A successful person
is always ready for something new, he is interested in learning new things, he is ready for novelty. The loser
also believes that he already knows everything, why else to study? One would like to always ask such
people: “If you are so smart, then why is it so unhappy?”
A successful person is always striving for more.
The loser is accustomed to being content with what is. Yes, the loser argues, I have little money, but then I
am honest! Yes, I have a small apartment, but my own, many in general live with their parents. A loser
always compares himself with others, and more often with even bigger losers than himself. A successful
person never compares himself to anyone, seeing something better than he has, he just wants to get it.
Successful people motivate themselves, they are on a positive wave. They are not looking for negativity
where there is none. They are always tuned for the best. Only losers tend to whine and complain about life,
about people, about partners, about the country, about the government. They will find a negative in
everything. Whatever happens in their lives, losers manage to paint even the most joyful event in black!
Unfortunately, our people have negative thinking, we would all suffer, complain. Nowadays, the word
“love” has long meant “regret.”
It is not customary for us to talk about successes and successes; But when we complain and cry the blues, we
attract unhappiness, the ones we are talking about. Negative thinking leads to destructive behavior:
alcoholism, drug addiction. These are all hidden forms of suicide.
Negative thoughts are contagious.
They are capable of being passed from person to person completely unnoticed and at an insane speed.
Therefore, it is very important what kind of thinking is in your environment – parents, relatives, friends,
And it all begins in childhood.
Although we are all born sinners, children losers in parents also become losers. Unlucky parents destroy the
energy of a winner in their children. A child as a sponge absorbs everything that it sees, hears, feels, all
verbal and non-verbal information (non-verbal information is transmitted by facial expressions, gestures,
And in a family with positive thinking, the child simply cannot think and feel differently. Only winners can
bring up a winner!
What to do? How to change your pathogenic, negative thinking to positive?
Of course, it is very important to “catch” your negative programs, and in all areas of life. This is the first and
very important step – to realize them and write them down until you “run away.” After all, as long as we are
not aware of our programs, beliefs, and attitudes, they are doing their “insidious business”, imperceptibly
The next step is to reprogram them to positive. Most often, we do this by writing, recording and repeating
positive programs, so-called affirmations. Repeating them, we inspire a new outlook on life and certain
aspects of it. But this is a difficult step, it takes a lot of time and effort. Since the new positive program
“enrolls in the head”, it must be repeated at least 21 days in a row and several times (3-4 times) a day.
Many people simply do not have the patience for it. They quit repeating affirmations on the second or third
day and become disillusioned with the method.
But there are 4 more simple ways of self-reprogramming, disposable and even more effective than
To conclude this article
After reading this article, the loser will say: “Some kind of nonsense! Oh, too, I am a writer! They wrote
down any nonsense here!
A successful person will add a couple of points to my list.
If you want to be successful, change your thinking. What you have been doing all your life has led you
exactly to where you are. If you don’t like where you are now, maybe it’s time to reconsider your life and
your attitude to life?